When you start saying " ah bugger, impossible to get an A larh. If i get an A i run around the school with my undies " you are actually criticizing urself.
you actually make it seem like you can't do it at first by saying negative things..
but slowly you'll start thinking negatively...
you'll keep telling yourself..
NO way i can do it.. its too hard.. it's IMPOSSIBLE
but NO you are W-R-O-N-G!
everything that we tell ourselves affect the way we behave, act and progress.
if you tell yourself it's too hard.. i can't do it..
you'll NEVER do it.
BUT
if you tell yourself i CAN do it... i KNOW i can..
you WILL do it
(*note : if you say you CAN do it you have to put determination and effort in that something. you can't just expect good things to come flying to you or appearing in front of you like magic! " Yang bulat tidak datang bergolek, yang pipih tidak datang melayang" )
WHY DO WE SELF-CRITICIZE OURSELVES?
sometimes people criticize themselves just to show people that they are "HUMBLE". self-criticism does NOT, i repeat does NOT make you sound humble. it just makes you sound even DUMBER!
self-criticism will eventually lead people to look down on your abilities. because when you criticize yourself, it makes others feel superior when you fail to do something well.
